Sometimes you realize what you’re doing before you do it, stop yourself, and commend yourself for making the right decision. Other times, you don’t realize it until it’s too late. But there are good and bad parts to both of those decisions. Because at least if you did it, you’ll know it wasn’t right and some part of you will never be constantly wondering ‘what if’. Sure, you can sulk and regret that you did it but look on the bright side, at least you realized it’s not what you need. And that, is the road to starting new again. Heartbreak might lead a person to do crazy things, but in time, you will pick your head back up and realize that you deserve more than just a midnight call/text. But I am here to tell you that now is the time to make those mistakes. Be young, reckless, and full of life. Life is going to pass you by and if you didn’t takes those chances, then you’ll be back at square one realizing ‘what if’. You can’t learn from a mistake, if you don’t make it. And if you’re worried about finding love, just be patient and love yourself first. The “one” will come.